Wanting is More than Having More

There are two important relationships all human beings have that we don't realize we have. Like affairs, they're the secret ones we never speak of. Yet they influence every decision we make, our dreams, hopes, desires, beliefs, feelings, thinking, choices and actions, and even our personalities. They simmer and stew under the water line, steeped in darkness, burning a gaping black hole in our soul. They rip our power away and take us hostage. These relationships are the ones we have with time and money.

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Language is Leadership

The power of words and the language we speak is much more impactful than what we think. Words create worlds and conversations affect our immune systems. Language, the universal form of communication, is the first program the brain learns. It is the way we humans connect, share information, knowledge, persuade, and express what's going on inside us. 


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Energy is Influence - Vibrate Higher

Influential leaders have an enigmatic X factor we label charisma. What’s really happening is they simply vibrate higher. The conscious aware understand the power of their positive influence and are fully accountable for their own energetic impact. Everything is energy and every interaction is an energetic exchange. Energy either attracts or repels. We, good humans, are

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Power is the Ego Minds Drug of Choice

We all want to feel a sense of power in our abilities to navigate the complexities of our external life experiences, inner landscape, and future uncertainties. Our families, careers, finances and our futures. That is our minds full-time job. Feeling powerful, like most stimuli are subject to the brains reward response system which releases feel-good drugs oxytocin, dopamine and serotonin. Seeking and feeling powerful is by definition addictive. 

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Bridging Reality Gaps

Do you ever feel that despite your best efforts to resolve conflict or communicate with a spouse, co-worker, manager, friend, family member, the others involved live in a completely different reality than you do? It's so obvious that you see what you see and why can't the other person see it the same way? It can be frustrating and exhausting until someone surrenders to agree to disagree leaving its own debris of disconnection

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Neuroscience The Root of all Change

Most people don't like change. It's not in our nature, more specifically it's not in our neurochemistry, because the brain is a habit machine. Here's how it works. Our life experiences create beliefs and emotions which create neural networks in the brain. These networks create a baseline or comfort zone that sets up our bodies neurochemistry. This baseline is maintained in feedback loops in our the neural networks through current experiences, thoughts, feelings and emotions. Both internal and external inputs contribute to maintain and reinforce these patterns through repetition. 

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Transformational Wake-Up Call

I believe everyone has a wake-up call in their lifetime. Some, like myself, have had many. That transformational moment, yearning or feeling, when soul says "time for an upgrade, course correction, detour, mayday, you're on the wrong path." In these defining moments, we are asked to heed the call of transformation -- to challenge everything we believe or value, go deep and dip into our inner resources to get to the next level of growth.

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Change Your Mind

I just sent a text to a friend about the fourth of July party she backed out of. I found myself texting “I hope you’ll change your mind.” Then it hit me. What a common phrase, yet we use it without really grasping how powerful it is. For someone like me, whose passionate about brain science, I was stopped in my tracks. Wow look at that. A change of mind. I got so excited I had to sit down and write this. According to neuroscience we can ...

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Redefining Relationships

What is your definition of the word, relationship? What’s the first thought or feeling that comes to mind?  Is it romance, love, family or friends? Are your feelings positive or negative? Whatever your answer, that’s your definition, and your relationship with the relationships in your life.

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Victim to Creator Consciousness

There are certain words in the English language that activate me, especially the word victim. It seems so disempowering and certainly not a role I would consciously choose to live in my life.  As a strong, independent woman, never in my wildest dreams did I consider the possibility that I was running my own unconscious program of victim mentality.  Turns out we all are. That's how we've all been programmed. 

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Belief Relief

Are your beliefs working for you? Do you know where they come from? Do they really belong to you? And are they moving you forward in manifesting your hearts desires? Or are you feeling stuck in need of some belief relief? My guess is we all are.

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The Fuck-It List

The other night sharing a meal with a friend, the subject of bucket lists came up. Suddenly he announces, in his usual witty way, “I’m not interested in bucket lists, I’ve created my own personalized fuck it list.” I was surprised to learn his palpable disdain for them and intrigued by his wisdom.

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